If you're uncertain about the situation you find yourself in, chances are you haven't had a serious conversation about it. You should try to clear the air, for your sanity, especially since finals are approaching - you don't need this additional stress.
If it's honestly closure your looking for, then be straight up with them and say thats what your after.
It does seem like you are interested in getting back together, at which point don't contact them. They'll eventually call you and if they don't then how they feel is pretty obvious.
i suggest you not follow the advice of the comment above me if you are okay with the possibility of you guys never calling each other again. the other person could be playing the exact same game you are of waiting for him/her to call. i know that if i feel the other person is doing it, i just get annoyed and won't go out of my way to contact them, not necessarily out of not being attracted to them initially, but because people who test others like that turns me off.
i suggest following the advice in the comment above this only if you are okay with the possibility of you guys never speaking to each other again.
1. the other person could be playing the exact same game you are 2. even if not, i know that i get turned off by people who do shit like this to test others. so even if i am attracted to someone, when i feel like they are shit-testing me, then i am much less inclined to give in to their sudden change in behaviour and calling them.
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All I can say is ask. The worst case senario? You get closure.
If you're uncertain about the situation you find yourself in, chances are you haven't had a serious conversation about it. You should try to clear the air, for your sanity, especially since finals are approaching - you don't need this additional stress.
no hesitation, no doubt
If it's honestly closure your looking for, then be straight up with them and say thats what your after.
It does seem like you are interested in getting back together, at which point don't contact them. They'll eventually call you and if they don't then how they feel is pretty obvious.
i suggest you not follow the advice of the comment above me if you are okay with the possibility of you guys never calling each other again. the other person could be playing the exact same game you are of waiting for him/her to call. i know that if i feel the other person is doing it, i just get annoyed and won't go out of my way to contact them, not necessarily out of not being attracted to them initially, but because people who test others like that turns me off.
i suggest following the advice in the comment above this only if you are okay with the possibility of you guys never speaking to each other again.
1. the other person could be playing the exact same game you are
2. even if not, i know that i get turned off by people who do shit like this to test others. so even if i am attracted to someone, when i feel like they are shit-testing me, then i am much less inclined to give in to their sudden change in behaviour and calling them.
oops sorry, my post didn't show up the first time and i wrote it again.
OP here. The game's off, he's back with his ex. Looks like I get neither another chance nor closure.
I think that was your closure.
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