Sounds as if the person is conflicted. Decide if he/she is worth all the mind fucking. If not, move on. Otherwise, be honest with this person, he/she is going to come around eventually.
12:15 - based on the history I can tell you that they at least WERE into me and haven't said anything about that changing
12:22 - yes I was part of the problem but I am a very straightforward person and have been pretty clear about whats going on from my end, all I would like is a bit of honesty even if its what I don't want to hear
12:23 Yes this is about a chick, yes they are all like that, its one of the failures of their gender, like insufficient upper body strength
12:54 - yes they are worth it, I would take conflicted, conflicted is good
Personally I think they have moved on and don't realize that trying to 'spare' my feelings just makes it worse.
I am done venting anonymously on the internet, thank you for your comments.
just a side note, im pretty sure a girl's ability to completely mindfuck a guy into oblivion is not a failure to their gender, its more like a sweet ass skill, possibly to make up for lack of upper body strength;)
I know who this is. She's not into you like that anymore. She has you hanging on a string because it makes her feel secure that she will always have you to fall back on, and that you will always be there for her. If she was STILL interested in you, things wouldn't have changed in the first place, regardless of the situation and/or problems she's facing. I know the best person to tell you whats going on is her, but it doesn't seem like it is going to come from her any time soon.
Sounds like what I've been going through with my ex. I Still care about her but the not knowing is frustrating. Luckily for me last week I met someone that I've started to really like, it'll happen for you too.
12:40 & 11:03 at least he seems to know what he wants, keeping him on the line is a bullshit move if all she wants is to use him as a safety blanket. People are such cowards with this sort of thing. Unless she says something how is he supposed to know what's going on? Calling him a creepy desperate loser isn't the answer.
OP it sounds like you have real feelings for this girl and I know how much that sucks. But if she's abusing that then she's being unfair, ask her for a genuine conversation and see what she says. Writing this has motivated me to call my ex and get the closure I deserve.
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fucking mindfucks
Holy crap, I can totally relate to this! Grrr...
chillll. the person probably just isn't that into you
Maybe you're part of the problem too.
dude is this about a chick? fuckman they are ALL like that
Sounds as if the person is conflicted. Decide if he/she is worth all the mind fucking. If not, move on. Otherwise, be honest with this person, he/she is going to come around eventually.
OP here,
12:15 - based on the history I can tell you that they at least WERE into me and haven't said anything about that changing
12:22 - yes I was part of the problem but I am a very straightforward person and have been pretty clear about whats going on from my end, all I would like is a bit of honesty even if its what I don't want to hear
12:23 Yes this is about a chick, yes they are all like that, its one of the failures of their gender, like insufficient upper body strength
12:54 - yes they are worth it, I would take conflicted, conflicted is good
Personally I think they have moved on and don't realize that trying to 'spare' my feelings just makes it worse.
I am done venting anonymously on the internet, thank you for your comments.
Totally thought this was about a guy.
Some douche is doing this to me right now.
just a side note, im pretty sure a girl's ability to completely mindfuck a guy into oblivion is not a failure to their gender, its more like a sweet ass skill, possibly to make up for lack of upper body strength;)
hope everything works out for you op
I know who this is. She's not into you like that anymore.
She has you hanging on a string because it makes her feel secure that she will always have you to fall back on, and that you will always be there for her.
If she was STILL interested in you, things wouldn't have changed in the first place, regardless of the situation and/or problems she's facing.
I know the best person to tell you whats going on is her, but it doesn't seem like it is going to come from her any time soon.
Op here, to the person above me. if your serious, please email who you think this is too
my.new.email17@gmail.com
its funny that you think you can tell who this is from a pretty ambiguous statement
ITS SO OBVIOUS!!!
Stop being such a creepy desperate loser, and get yourself together!!!
yeah I think you probably have the wrong person, but use that email and send me who you think i am
sounds like you should be encouraging your friend to be honest with whoever it is
Sounds like what I've been going through with my ex. I Still care about her but the not knowing is frustrating. Luckily for me last week I met someone that I've started to really like, it'll happen for you too.
12:40 & 11:03 at least he seems to know what he wants, keeping him on the line is a bullshit move if all she wants is to use him as a safety blanket. People are such cowards with this sort of thing. Unless she says something how is he supposed to know what's going on? Calling him a creepy desperate loser isn't the answer.
OP it sounds like you have real feelings for this girl and I know how much that sucks. But if she's abusing that then she's being unfair, ask her for a genuine conversation and see what she says. Writing this has motivated me to call my ex and get the closure I deserve.
yea this is what its like for me and my ex, now i just sorta hate her
screw her
bitches be crazy
Called her, it's over. At least she was honest and now I can move on.
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