Sunday, November 29, 2009
MC: There is something you\'re not telling me, and it\'s because you have the wrong opinion about me. After we climb this bump that feels like a mountain, you know it\'ll be better than good. I know I can\'t force anything, because that will destroy everything in the long run. For you, I wait patiently.
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woah that's deep. Maybe you can 'force' it without destroying everything so you don't have to wait patiently any longer?
stop waiting
dude, if there's something she's not telling you she's probably not going to tell you until it's too late.
If someone says they need space then trying to 'force it' is a terrible idea.
If your absolutely going to wait then heres a few helpful rules:
1. Decide exactly how long your going to wait for, make it be on YOUR schedule not theirs. If it doesn't happen after that accept that it probably isn't meant to be and know that you did what you could.
2. For gosh sake don't tell them your waiting. Everyone is guilty of doing it but its pathetic when people know.
3. Don't initiate contact, if they need time and space give it to them. If they ask why you haven't tried to talk to them; tell them you are respecting their wishes.
4. If contact is unavoidable don't make it awkward. Smile, be pleasant, remember that they liked something about you initially, be THAT person. Under no circumstances discuss any 'deep' issues, don't try and start an emotional conversation, don't pry into their feelings, if they want to talk about it they will. Don't drag the conversation on; I know your excited to be seeing them but keep it short and sweet.
By unavoidable I mean your literally both about to occupy the same space, if you are at a bar... stop drinking immediately. Do not go seek them out 'just to say hi', let them come to you. If they don't come to you, don't worry about it, maybe they just want to party with their friends, or they wanted to try and force you to be the one to make contact. Remember your not the one that asked for space.
5. Don't try and make them jealous, you've obviously got it bad and it will be transparent.
6. Don't try and get information from her friends, girls are better at it than guys and you will be on the losing end of this exchange. Also she will find out our asking about her.
7. Keep busy, this time of year should provide plenty of distractions. Do productive things with your time, take this time to make yourself a little bit better. Hit the gym, learn a new sport. Spend a HEALTHY amount of time considering why the relationship went wrong, even if this doesn't work out you'll know better for next time.
8. Stop writing sad little poems about how awesome the relationship is going to be, its depressing.
9. I know all you want to do is talk about it. Don't. It gets annoying after a little while and your friends don't want to hear about it 24/7.
10. When the time comes know that you might have to walk away. Don't burn any bridges but you've got to move on. Don't tell them this, an announcement that your going to move on is a great way of showing that you haven't.
She doesn't need space, she's just being a girl - Hard to read.
Thanx for da tipz.
yawwwnn
the guy that wrote that poem is the same person as "thanx for da tipz"?
poetic.
i don't think this is a poem.
how do you know that she's not telling you something?
Wow, this is actually more pathetic than my relationships, I didn't think that was possible.
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